Love

Loving someone is loving them as a whole. There are things you love about them. And things that you are not fond of. We try to embrace every aspect of them. You learn to love them.

But what if your loved one is doing something to harm themselves? What would you do at that point? Do you intervene? What is your intervention?

Communicate and put a voice to your thoughts. If they don't want to listen or ignore your love and your opinion. Or they may thank you and make a change in their lifestyle. Sometimes they may keep their promise and change their habits. But is this just a temporary or permanent change?

You may often hear people say that their spouses bring out the better in them. But what if something worse is brought out? What do you do then?

People that Make you or Break you

Have you ever thought about how your significant other, friends, family and people around you affect you as a person?

I mean not everyone is perfect for each other and not everyone gets along either. Have you ever had someone in your life that makes you laugh when you're sad and gives you a hug when you need some encouragement? Someone who lends you a shoulder to cry on or someone that helps you get back up on your feet when you have hit rock bottom. Keep them close by as they are hard to come by. These are your true friends.

You may think that to be a silly thought but there are many wolves dressed in sheep's clothing nowadays. For instance you had someone be nice to you and invite you to a party only so that you can get them a great deal at the venue. Then treat you inhumanly, be rude and tell you to go home if you don't like it. That's a 'woof' alright.

A true friend doesn't talk behind your back. Someone that loves you doesn't tell you who to be friends with. A grateful person will know how to say 'please & thank you.' A true friend doesn't treat your relationship as a game and they surely don't keep score. A truly genuine friend will learn to say 'Sorry,' when they know that they have wronged you.

There are second chances in life & relationships. But when you pour your heart out and all you get in return is greed and selfishness. How many times will you fall into this trap from the wolves? Fool me 3 times, Strike and you're out of my life.

Friendship

To love and to know
You may speak without despair
To hold and to weep upon
You are my rock

You may be blunt
And I shall forgive
For a lifetime of love
We give each other comfort

We may not speak
We may not meet
For a while
Sometimes longer

But we still remember
You're always on my mind
From time to time
We speak a life's worth of dialogue

We finish one another's sentences
Love can bring happiness
Friendship can create companionship
Sharing is caring

Never to part ways
When you seen me in a daze
You guide me through a path
I trust you
Without questioning your judgment

You make me smile
laugh
smile
cry
and mad
But in the end
I love you my dear friend